Pure Happiness of Submission

My Pleasure in Being Submissive and Masochistic

Individuality – we each express who we are without regard to the bogus conventions, sham rules and kindred nonsense that is often propounded as truths on the web.

Erotic Beauty – Ordinary people they say have fifteen minutes of sex a few times a week. Pneumatic action followed by sleep. In our power exchange “sex” can last for hours and the afterglow for days. (Yeah, this is two words.)

Pet – I’m in love and on my knees. Resting my head on her knee and waiting for her hand to brush the back of my neck is one of the happiest spaces I can go to.

Creature – (Not really explored. But I want ten.) Less than human object. Existing to be used: inarticulate, obedient without thought.

Slave – My will vanishes. There seems to be an invisible wire that leads from her brain to mine. My brain becomes quiet, if I think it is only to make sure I obey.

Helpless – How odd it is to be a man who must struggle to reach these states. Thankfully chains and cuffs can help me find my way there.

Pain – I almost laugh as I type that word. My mind harks back to being bound at the dining room entry as she hit me. Would that next blog of the quirt be too much or not enough? Before she comes back I will go to my rose garden and cut a thick stem.

Suffering – As she hurts me it feels as if she is eating my heart like it is a rare delicacy. There is more than mere physical suffering to be explored.

Surrender – I prefer this word to submission. (And despise “sub” and “subbie.”) Doing what I’m told or really merely asked meshes deeply with my needs.

Worship – this is where the surrender is purest, becomes beatific. When this overcomes me I wish I were telepathic. There are no words, is no action with which I can really let her feel what is flowing through my heart.

(I got a note saying that someone on Informed Consent swiped this without credit. Rereading it I find I still enjoy it and thought I’d repost the list here.

Eleven Delights of Submission & Masochism

Individuality – we each express who we are without regard to the bogus conventions, sham rules and kindred nonsense that is often propounded as truths on the web.

Erotic Beauty – Ordinary people they say have fifteen minutes of sex a few times a week. Pneumatic action followed by sleep. In our power exchange “sex” can last for hours and the afterglow for days. (Yeah, this is two words.)

Pet – I’m in love and on my knees. Resting my head on her knee and waiting for her hand to brush the back of my neck is one of the happiest spaces I can go to.

Creature – (Not really explored. But I want ten.) Less than human object. Existing to be used: inarticulate, obedient without thought.

Slave – My will vanishes. There seems to be an invisible wire that leads from her brain to mine. My brain becomes quiet, if I think it is only to make sure I obey.

Helpless – How odd it is to be a man who must struggle to reach these states. Thankfully chains and cuffs can help me find my way there.

Pain – I almost laugh as I type that word. My mind harks back to being bound at the dining room entry as she hit me. Would that next blog of the quirt be too much or not enough? Before she comes back I will go to my rose garden and cut a thick stem.

Suffering – As she hurts me it feels as if she is eating my heart like it is a rare delicacy. There is more than mere physical suffering to be explored.

Surrender – I prefer this word to submission. (And despise “sub” and “subbie.”) Doing what I’m told or really merely asked meshes deeply with my needs.

Worship – this is where the surrender is purest, becomes beatific. When this overcomes me I wish I were telepathic. There are no words, is no action with which I can really let her feel what is flowing through my heart.

20 Things About Femdom

What is “Femdom” if not D/s and S&M with a certain arrangement of pronouns?

The list grew to twenty. Could’ve been seventeen but our fingers have left us with a prejudice favoring multiples of five.

Herewith a list of things for fetish folk to meditate on. Disagreement is as always invited.

  1. Female superiority and supremacy may make hot fantasies. Some like to play plantation slave and concentration camp victim. None are part of a sane reality.
  2. Gender is fluid – biologically, socially, personally. The only gender rules or roles anyone adopts should be those they enjoy.
  3. Genders don’t have inherent social behaviors. Women are not necessarily X nor men necessarily Y. Some are Q. Others are z1nMn3pR.
  4. Gender can be playful self-expression with components that can be manipulated blurred or blended.
  5. Clichés can be sexy and fun. One person’s stereotype is another’s archetype.
  6. The only rules are those agreed upon by two people who are at least trying to be sensible.
  7. Never be Dommelier (or slavier) than thou shall be the whole of the law.
  8. Pleasure is individual to each person’s nervous system: your greatest thrill may do nothing for someone else.
  9. Never try to convince a man that his wife can surely enjoy dominating him unless you are willing to pay his legal fees for a divorce.
  10. BDSM maybe entertaining, enriching, fulfilling: it isn’t a morality play.
  11. If anyone tells you that a real something or someone must be such-and-such warn them that you may be compelled to report them to the Society for the Suppression of Boredom.
  12. Other fetishists’ experiences are invaluable. Others ways of performing BDSM aren’t necessarily yours.
  13. Risk is always there. If you can’t accept this don’t cross the street. You probably shouldn’t even leave your house.
  14. Never be ashamed to admit you want or need a safeword or stop words.
  15. Don’t confuse letting yourself become miserable and unhappy with topping from the bottom.
  16. You may enjoy feeling like a slave but your slavery isn’t a legal, political or social actuality. Sorry.
  17. Porn – for better or worse – is not reality: understand what real life people are saying not what you want to hear. Then you can enjoy both porn and reality.
  18. Any BDSM relationship may embrace multiple levels of play from the most intense to the lightest.
  19. Never to be neglected in any century: honesty, communication, clarity, respect and empathy.
  20. TLAs – three letter acronyms – are much worse than four letter words.

It could’ve been twenty-one maxims. Or thirty-nine. Have one to add? Is there one you feel I should retract?

Hmmm. Maybe I should have cut this back to ten. 10 Best Things About BDSM seems a better list.

On my knees, hands and feet hogtied together behind me. It was the first time I submitted to Her. Sitting in Her chair looking at me, I felt I was being examined with an eye to being improved like a bit of hardware that required tuning.

I didn’t see her sudden slap against the side of my face coming.

“Do you know why I slapped you?”

“No “¦ ” not sure what to say I concluded ” “¦ Mistress.”

The second slap seemed faster and harder.

“The first slap was because I can and I like to. The second was for addressing me as Mistress. Did I give you permission to use that word?”

“No “¦ ?” confused I let the word peter out, half a question.

She grabbed an ear lobe between her fingers and bent down.

“Every slave has made common with his fantasies!”

“I “¦ ” Didn’t finish because one of her nails cut into my captive lobe.

“Shut up, never speak without permission. Never make an assumption. I may instruct you to call me My Lady, Goddess, M’am or even Mistress. I may change the words you address me every day. If you forget and use the wrong one you’ll be punished. Not that I need an excuse. But I’ll enjoy your knowing that you might’ve escaped a beating if only you’d been more careful.”

“For now I think you should say nothing.” And she reached for the ball gag on the table.

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Lifestyle Contract for Male Slaves (F/m Rules & Regulations)

Rules of Behavior and Deportment Governing Enslaved Men

Mistress, i freely and willingly affirm that i am Your slave, whose sole reason for existence is Your pleasure. i have no rights or privileges other than those granted to me by You. i swear to always honor You through my obedience and service. my body and mind are Yours to use in any way You choose.

“Mistress , i acknowledge that You are under no obligation to explain Your orders or to justify Your punishment and training, but i am under every obligation to obey You and accept Your punishment.

“my body, mind, and soul are from this day forth the private property of my Mistress, to be used as SHE sees fit. i promise to obey Her completely, to do whatever She tells me to do, to submit to any punishment SHE sees fit to impose on me.

“i renounce any rights that i may have to think my own thoughts, care for my own needs or comfort, or control my own destiny. From now on, i shall wear only what SHE commands me to wear, and serve only HER.

“Since i hereby renounce any rights to a personal opinion, desire, or need have my own, this agreement can never be broken by me for any reason because I desire a lifetime commitment. my obligation to the Mistress is to be whatever SHE wants me to be.

“i acknowledge i am a slave and i live to Worship and Obey You as my Mistress.”

THE SLAVE’S GENERAL ORDERS
Part of a slave’s training is having clear-cut rules to live by. There are rules that apply to all situations and some that apply only when in the presence of the Mistress or in an environment where the SM scene is understood and accepted.

The Mistress’s time is precious and HER time with the slave may be short. In no case does this fact detract from the standards of excellence expected from the slave. Training may be harsh. This is the fastest way to train and also the method that produces the most effective results. The slave will enthusiastically accept training. The Mistress will acknowledge when a task is performed properly and the slave will sincerely thank the Mistress for the training. The Mistress will take as long as necessary to train the slave as long as the slave is genuinely trying and not malingering. Once a slave has been trained, if it fails in a task, the Mistress will assume that it is being disobedient and it will be punished.

The slave’s body becomes the Mistress’s property; as such, the slave has no right to protest any use the Mistress chooses to make of it.

Rather, it is an honor if the Mistress deigns to touch HER property in any fashion SHE desires.

It is the slave’s duty to obey any and all commands given by the Mistress, and to do this without question or hesitation.

The slave shall speak only when the Mistress gives permission. The slave will request permission to speak prior to asking any questions it may have regarding the Mistress’s commands or specifications of the slave’s assigned duties.

In all his personal activities, the slave surrenders all decisions to the Mistress.

A series of positions will be learned by the slave regarding standing, sitting, using the toilet, presenting his body for inspection, etc., and will be practiced according to the training provided by the Mistress.

The Mistress may choose to ignore the slave for long, extended periods. The slave will remain silent for whatever length of time the Mistress requires.

The slave agrees to adhere with all his life to the rules or regulations the Mistress may add at a future time. The slave understands that the Mistress is the sole judge in determining whether an infraction of this contract has occurred. The Mistress is also the sole judge in determining the degree of punishment. Punishment may include dismissal from service.

THESE GENERAL ORDERS WILL BE MEMORIZED AND QUOTED FROM MEMORY AT THE COMMAND OF THE Mistress
1. The slave will always show his Mistress the highest level of respect.

2. The slave will never lie to his Mistress.

3. The slave will never piss standing up. A slave is subservient to his Mistress and should not be so presumptuous as to imitate a man. Men piss standing up slaves do not. The slave will always sit on a toilet or squat down to piss. This will help serve as a reminder of who and what he is. The slave will not use the seat of a toilet. The slave will sit on the cold porcelain when he shits or pisses. The Mistress uses the seat and the slave’s ass is not worthy of touching what SHE has used.

4. The slave shall address the Mistress as “Ma’am” or “Mistress” at all times unless given permission to do otherwise, and shall address the Mistress with respect at all times. When using formal address, the slave will refer to the Mistress as “the Mistress” or “SHE”, and to itself as “the slave” or “it”. When using familiar address, the slave will refer to the Mistress as “Ma’am” or “You”, and to itself as “i” or “me”. When speaking to others, the slave will refer to the Mistress as “my Mistress” , and to itself as “i” and “me”.

5. The slave shall, at all times, respectfully request permission to take any action not expressly directed by the Mistress. A reason must be given for such actions at the time of the request.

6. The slave is to use the Mistress’s space with utmost respect and shall always leave any area he is permitted to use in a state of order and cleanliness. Not withstanding, the slave shall not disturb any of Mistress’s personal belongings without express permission.

7. The slave will never wear underwear, except as the Mistress directs. It is an article of unnecessary clothing. If the slave works on the outside and must wear something, it will be a jockstrap.

8. The slave will never touch its cock, balls, asshole, or tits without the Mistress’s permission. They are for HER enjoyment only, not the slave’s.

9. The slave will have no privacy from his Mistress. There is nothing that the slave will not reveal to HER. The slave is the Mistress’s property and, as such, SHE has the right to know everything.

10. The slave will sleep at the foot of the Mistress’s bed or in a cage as the Mistress requires. The slave will only sleep in the Mistress’s bed when ordered to do so.

11. At home, the slave will not sit on any furniture unless instructed to do so. The slave will kneel, lay, or sit on the floor as ordered.

12. The Mistress will train the slave and the slave will always do his best to follow instructions. The slave will learn how to serve his Mistress’s every need and desire.

13. The slave will never embarrass his Mistress for fear of being severely punished.

14. The slave will always strive to extend his limits to new heights so the Mistress can be increasingly proud of HER property.

15. The slave will willingly accept punishment from the Mistress. It is meant to remind the slave of how he is to behave and perform his duties to HER.

18. The slave will offer his body and mind to the Mistress at any time SHE desires to use it. The purpose of how SHE uses the slave is immaterial; it is sufficient that SHE wants to use it.

19. The Mistress will frequently enjoy Herself in ways that may cause the slave great pain. The slave will learn to accept and rejoice in the fact that it is able to perform that service for HER, even when it means considerable agony.

20. The slave will always wear what the Mistress determines to be the appropriate attire for any given situation. This may be as little as a jockstrap and slave collar, even in public. The fact that this may cause the slave embarrassment is of no concern. When in the Mistress’s home or when the Mistress is present in the slave’s home, the slave will remain naked at all times.

21. The slave will keep himself shaved of hair, as ordered or as removed by the Mistress. When clothing is required, as determined by the Mistress, the Mistress will specify it.

22. All orders are subject to verbal modification at the pleasure of the Mistress and the Mistress may impose such additional orders as SHE deems appropriate.

23. The slave shall keep its mind concentrated solely upon service to the Mistress and shall demonstrate its acceptance of his role of service and availability at all times.

24. Whenever the Mistress or the slave enters a room in which the other is already present, the slave will immediately kneel and kiss the Mistress’s feet, unless physically unable to or under previous orders not to. If the Mistress’s clit is free, the slave will take it into its mouth after kissing the Mistress’s feet and keep it there until the Mistress orders otherwise.

25. The MISTRESS may give the slave “free periods” in His presence, during which the slave may express himself openly and freely. There will be no punishment applied during “free periods.” It is understood, however, that the slave must still address the MISTRESS with respect at all times, and that the slave may be punished for infractions of this rule.

INFRACTIONS
The slave is to be punished for all infractions of both the letter and the spirit of this Contract. The form and extent of punishment shall be at the Mistress’s pleasure and the MISTRESS shall make it clear to the slave that he is being punished when punishment occurs. The slave shall always thankfully accept punishment as an opportunity to expand in the service of the Mistress.

CONDUCT MODES
The slave shall behave in a manner consistent with the rules set forth in the three conduct modes outlined below. The Mistress may, from time to time, indicate which mode the slave shall act within by stating the name of the mode to the slave; the mode may change at any time, depending on circumstances, and the slave must always be aware and conscious of the Mistress’s wishes. The Mistress may institute a set of silent or otherwise unobtrusive signals to notify the slave of the current mode.

Private Mode
In Private Mode, the slave is bound solely by the rules set forth in the basic Contract and no additional restrictions are imposed upon the slave’s conduct, save those stated by the Mistress. This mode will normally (though not always) be in effect when the Mistress and the slave are in the Mistress’s space or in the space of a knowledgeable and/or sympathetic person or persons.

Friendly Mode
Friendly Mode may be in effect in public places such as leather bars, where casual onlookers will understand the dress, demeanor, and appearance of the Mistress and slave, and the nature of their relationship, for what they are and viewed sympathetically (or at least not antagonistically).

The following specific rules shall apply to the slave’s conduct and demeanor while in Friendly Mode.

Stationary Position

The slave shall remain at the Mistress’s side at all times unless specifically instructed otherwise. While the Mistress and the slave are standing in one place, the slave shall maintain a physical position to the right of and one-half step behind the Mistress.
Moving Position

If the Mistress begins to move from one place to another, the slave shall position himself to the right of and slightly behind the Mistress and move at the same speed as the Mistress. The slave’s position shall be such that he is always within the limit of the Mistress’s peripheral vision at all times. Under no circumstances shall the slave precede the Mistress, except to open the door or other such service as the Mistress requires. Elevation

The slave’s eye level shall be below that of the Mistress at all times. Should the Mistress move so that HER eye level is below that of the slave, the slave shall immediately move so as to correct this imbalance. The General Orders are hereby extended to include all furniture, not just that in the Mistress’s space: the slave shall therefore go to its knees (or to a lower position, if need be) should the Mistress’s eye level drop below the slave’s, rather than (for example) sit with the Mistress, unless granted specific permission or specifically ordered to do so.

Interactions With Others

The slave shall speak to no one at any time unless first spoken to or instructed to speak by the Mistress. The slave shall treat all persons with deference and respect, regardless of their demeanor or appearance. The Mistress may, at HER discretion, grant the slave free time. In this mode, the slave is free to interact normally with acquaintances, but shall make frequent eye contact with the Mistress and be prepared to go into any other mode the Mistress directs.

Public Mode

Public Mode will generally apply in contexts where the Mistress/slave relationship may not be accepted or understood by those present. The following rules are, therefore, intended more to ensure the physical safety of the Mistress and slave, rather than to further the relationship between them.

The following specific rules shall apply to the slave’s behavior in Public Mode. General Demeanor

The slave shall conduct itself at all times in such a manner so as not to call attention to the Mistress and slave.

Certain Orders Suspended

The rules of the General Orders prohibiting the slave’s use of furniture and prohibiting the slave from being clothed are suspended while in Public Mode.

Movement and Position

The movement and position rules set forth in friendly mode also apply to Public Mode, with the provision that the slave shall not make his adherence to said rules obvious; casual and relatively loose (but definite!), rather than quick and snappy, conformance to the rules is called for in such situations.

Interactions With Others

The slave shall speak only when spoken to by others and shall converse with others only with the Mistress’s permission. If someone approaches the slave he shall limit his speech and behave in a courteous and non-offensive manner. The slave should assume he is in the company of the straight public and identify himself with his common given name, behaving in a manner that will not call attention to the nature of the true relationship between the Mistress and slave, calling the Mistress by HER formal surname, rather than referring to HER as Mistress.

ATTITUDES AND ATTRIBUTES
The slave shall display the following authorized slave attitudes and attributes at all times:

Humility Submission Obedience Eagerness to Obey oSpeed in Carrying Out Orders oCompetence in Carrying Out Orders oSuccess in Completely Carrying Out Orders oServility oSlavish Loyalty oSlavish Devotion oGratitude towards its Mistress oLove for its Mistress oWorship for its Mistress

1. The slave shall immediately, eagerly and without question carry out all commands and orders given to it without exception.

2. The slave shall fully and successfully carry out all such commands and orders, complying completely with both the letter and spirit of every command.

3. The slave is strictly forbidden to make any mistakes whatsoever in carrying out its Mistress’s orders and commands.

4. The slave must carry out all orders and commands completely within the time allotted for carrying them out.

5. The slave shall show its Mistress the utmost gratitude for the privilege of carrying out HER orders and commands, offering HER formal thanks whenever permitted to do so.

6. The slave shall NEVER, for any reason or under any circumstance, question, complain about or refuse an order or command given to it by its Mistress.

7. The slave shall immediately report to its Mistress upon the complete carrying out of any order or command, except when to do so would bother or irritate Her.

8. The slave shall humbly and quietly await further orders when it has fully completed one order or command and has reported back to its Mistress.

9. The slave shall be prepared at all times to have all completed orders, tasks and assignments fully and minutely inspected to see that every detail has been carried out according to instruction.

10. Any failure on the part of the slave to fully, completely and perfectly carry out its assigned orders shall be considered a serious and punishable offense.

THE TEN BASIC RULES

1. The slave speaks only when spoken to and then says, “Ma’am”, with every sentence.

2. The slave obeys all orders, no matter what. it questions nothing and is well punished if it does.

3. The slave does not sit in its Mistress’s presence. it may stand, kneel, or lay, but sit only when ordered.

4. A slave never wears underwear. it seldom wears anything above the waist outdoors other than its leather (if earned), and indoors little below the waist other than its chains.

5. The slave may be shaved and instructed to wear its cockring permanently.

6. The slave’s toilet training begins with always obtaining permission to use the bathroom — and is seldom allowed to use it alone.

7. The slave, in its entirety, belongs to its Mistress and, therefore, the slave is not allowed to touch certain areas of itself or its Mistress for any reason without permission.

8. All of a slave’s possessions are automatically its Mistress’s. The slave owns nothing.

9. The slave lives by a curfew; all personal habits — such as drinking, smoking, eating, sleeping, exercise, and sex — are governed completely by its Mistress.

10. The slave’s creed is to be memorized, as it will be called upon to recite it at any time — and perfectly!

THE SLAVE’S CREED
“I am a pussy licking, ass-kissing slave whose sole reason for being is the pleasure of my Mistress. I have no rights, no privileges, and am worthy of no considerations. My Mistress’s pleasure is my reason for being. My body and mind are His property to do with whatever SHE chooses. I exist only to serve.”slave’s number or slave name (assigned upon acceptance)

SIGNATURE
By his signature below, the slave acknowledges that it has read, understands, and agrees to abide by the rules of this Contract.

Lifestyle Submissive Male Rules & Regulations

By Mistress Christianna

1. The submale must always practice traditional courtesy which men have shown Women in polite society, whether in private or public. Stand when She enters the room. Sit (or kneel) as soon as She is seated.

2. Be totally attentive: open doors, wait at table so that She begins eating first, always ask permission to leave Her presence.

3. The submale should never speak unless spoken to, or unless anticipating the needs of his Mistress.

4. The submissive will never sit with legs spread or slouch in a way typical of untrained males. Good posture and decorum is a sign of respect.

5. The submale will never stare at a Woman without Her permission. Unless the Woman seeks eye-contact, the submissive will keep his eyes lowered at all times.

6. When walking with his Mistress, or any Woman, the submissive will keep his gait in step with hers, which usually means taking smaller steps. The submale should always be at least a step behind; but not too far, because he must open all doors.

7. Respect is shown by a submissive as long as he never fails to forget his lowly role in life. The submissive must always be pleasant, never argue and never pout.

THE submale’s NAME

8. The submale should be given a new name by his Mistress to symbolize his submissive state. If the submale is a sissy, it should be a feminine name. Other names may be “made up” words that sound humiliating or which are amusing or pleasing to the Mistress; for example, names typical of pet dogs or cats.

THE submale’s BODY

9. A submale surrenders control to his Mistress. He surrenders control of his body, how he spends his time, how he dresses, what he eats, where he sleeps, the friends or acquaintances he is allowed to keep. In all aspects, the Mistress controls the submale.

10. Because a submale’s purpose is to please his Mistress, more than anything else She owns, he must learn to control his response to sexual stimulation for the greater enjoyment of his Mistress. his orgasm is the only that the submale has left to control for himself. Failure to control his orgasm is disobedience. Disobedience requires punishment.

11. If the Mistress prefers simply to torment the submale and deny him release, then the submale must control himself to provide Her than pleasure. He must dedicate himself to abstinence and thank his Mistress humbly for removing the pleasure of ejaculation, thus allowing him to dedicate his lost pleasure to Her.

12. If the Mistress demands satisfaction through sexual intercourse, the submale must be able to control effectively his own orgasm so that it is timed to the pleasure of his Mistress. His purpose is not to please himself but to please Her.

13. In all cases, the submale must remember that his orgasm does not belong to him — his orgasm belongs to his Mistress. It is Hers to use, however she sees fit.

14. The submale should be as clean-shaven as the Mistress requires: from the top of his head to his toes, body hair should be present only if the Mistress allows it.

15. The submale may wear long hair, styled to imitate the superior styles of Women, only if the Mistress permits.

16. The submale may never touch his own genitals without the permission of his Mistress. When washing, he must use a washcloth or brush, never his hands.

17. The submale will allow himself to be pierced or tattooed as required by his Mistress, if safely and professionally done.

PERSONAL PROPERTY

18. The submale is the personal property of the Mistress. his possessions are Her possessions.

19. The submissive should always be saving to purchase “big ticket” items that his Mistress wants to buy. This means the submale is always on a strict allowance, kept by his Mistress.

CLOTHING

20. Feminization is training in submission. Wearing items of Feminine attire separates the submissive from and puts him outside of the world of the macho male. Wearing feminine attire doesn’t make the male like a Woman; this is impossible.

21. Standard attire is pink or white panties, an extra-absorbent pad (normally used by those suffering from incontinence), and panty hose worn under male clothing.

22. Whether a woman knows what the submissive is wearing or not, feminization pushes the submissive closer to the company of women and away from the company of men. This is good for the submale, because it creates greater opportunities for him to be of help to Women, to serve them, and to model his behavior on their own superior behavior.

23. Feminine items can also be used as punishment — corsets, girdles and foundations. These should be selected by the Mistress for maximum discomfort.

24. If the submale is a sissy or TV, very feminine clothing should be reserved for rewards; drudge clothing — plain white panties, plain lingerie, housecoats, aprons, etc. — should be required as normal attire.

25. The submale should never buy his own clothing without the guidance of his Mistress. He should buy what pleases her, not what he likes.

HEALTH & HYGIENE

26. The submissive will use only Feminine hygiene products: soaps, shampoos, lotions, deodorants, etc. and will be clean and properly groomed at all times.

27. The submale will submit to enemas, or self-administer enemas, on demand by the Mistress.

28. When urinating, the submale will always sit on the toilet; no exceptions.

29. For good health, the submissive will enroll in a dance aerobics class. As an alternative, the submale will prepare his own dance aerobics routine and perform it for his Mistress for Her amusement.

30. The submale must diet as required to maintain a correct weight for his height and should drink at least six 12-ounce glasses of water each day.

31. The submale must submit to eating only “submale food” selected by his Mistress whenever she requires it.

MAID SERVICE

32. When a meal is over the submale must be quick to clear the table and wash the dishes.

33. The submale must always give his Mistress the first choice of everything — She picks the section of the paper to read first, the channel on TV to watch, the restaurant to go to, the movie to see, the friends to entertain, etc.

34. The submissive must always keep his own quarters spotless, as directed by the Mistress. All furnishings and interior decoration will follow Her taste.

35. The submale will perform all household chores for the Mistress, to include:

  • sweep and vacuum all floors and carpets
  • mop and was all floors
  • dust and polish all furniture
  • make the beds every day
  • wash and fold all clothing and linens
  • iron
  • handwash all lingerie
  • scrub bathrooms
  • clean kitchen
  • cook simple meals; assist in all cooking
  • wash dishes and put them away
  • set the table
  • shop for groceries and put them away
  • take out trash and sort recycled items
  • run all errands as directed
  • perform yard work; plant flowers as directed