Barbara O’Toole art demonstrating female-led corporal punishment and discipline.
Binding Male Slavery & Chastity Contract
This Contract between submissive male and Mistress covers the terms of the training of submissive male by his Mistress to the optimal level of utilitarian and intimate service, as judged by the Mistress. The Mistress may use any and all means of enforcement as described herein necessary to achieve the results she desires. It is the intention of both parties that the submissive male shall become the sex slave of Mistress for the term of this Contract, to be formally trained to serve her, and that the Mistress commits to firmly and consistently using whatever force may be necessary to accomplish this goal.
- submissive male admits that he had difficulty staying focused and completing tasks that he knows he should complete.
- submissive male admits he has not provided Mistress with the affection, support, love, and deference she deserves and wishes to be trained to treat her as the superior She is.
- To remedy past faults and any other faults Mistress identifies, submissive male desires to submit to his Mistress’s authority and desires to give his Mistress all tools necessary to forcefully correct his behavior and train him to serve the Mistress as she sees fit. Training tools at her disposal specifically include, but are not limited to, orgasm denial, humiliation, restraint, and corporal punishment.
- submissive male acknowledges that Mistress undertakes the duties and role herein described at submissive male’s insistence and that Mistress did not compel or coerce submissive male’s participation.
- submissive male acknowledges that the purpose of this Contract is to provide complete satisfaction to the Mistress and that she shall have no responsibility for submissive male’s satisfaction.
- In consideration of submissive male’s commitment to be trained, Mistress commits to physically discipline submissive male to compel his specific performance under this Contract.
- Mistress is willing to undertake the training and discipline of submissive male as described herein and enthusiastically administer whatever discipline is necessary to train submissive male.
- submissive male wishes to be trained and disciplined by Mistress according to this Contract.
The term of this Contract shall be for one year. If the Contract is not cancelled by either party at the end of the first year, it shall become permanent.
submissive male will wear a locked chastity device acceptable to Mistress at all times, except as provided herein. If requested by Mistress, submissive male will acquaint Mistress with the various models and types and agrees to obtain and be restrained in any device specified by Mistress.
Numbers shown below represent the Minimum Punishment Penalties which accrue during the week for specific infractions. One MPP = 1 stroke of the whip. MPPs earned during the week must be worked off during that week’s punishment session. Each week, submissive male automatically accrues MPPs simply because he is Mistress’s trainee.
- submissive male is responsible for daily cleaning of device.
- submissive male will notify the Mistress immediately of any concerns regarding function or cleanliness of device.
- The Mistress will supervise at least one removal of device in a seven-day period for cleaning and shaving.
- submissive male agrees to all terms of release as set forth by Mistress, including restraints if deemed necessary.
- submissive male agrees that during release for cleaning he will shave accordingly to keep genital area free from hair.
- submissive male agrees that he will immediately re-secure device after all cleanings unless specifically ordered not to by Mistress.
- Both parties acknowledge that a release from device may be permitted for medical or extreme discomfort issues. However during such release no sexual releases are permitted and submissive male agrees once medical condition is rectified immediate return of the device will commence without delay.
- Mistress will retain all keys to said device and all other devices, locks, restraints.
- submissive male will not attempt to defeat the device in any way or possess any keys.
- Mistress will make one emergency key available to submissive male for use in medical emergency, doctor appointments, and any other situation in which excessive bodily harm may be present to submissive male.
- submissive male agrees that in such emergency he will notify Mistress immediately and that no sexual release is permitted. If self-release is attempted and/or carried out, punishment as outlined in the contract will be applied.
- submissive male agrees that once medical condition has been rectified submissive male will re-secure device immediately and notify Mistress of said action.
- submissive male shall have no sexual release without the explicit permission of Mistress.
- Mistress agrees that submissive male will be entitled to at least three releases in any sixty-day period, provided his service meets the requirements set by Mistress. Releases will be for a period of no less than 8 hours but no more than 24 hours.
- Mistress is given sole discretion of how releases will be carried out.
- submissive male acknowledges and agrees that Mistress has certain sexual needs that may need fulfilled and such releases for Mistress do not constitute a release for submissive male.
- submissive male agrees to immediately and enthusiastically satisfy Mistress by any and all means Mistress requests for sexual and sensual gratification.
- submissive male agrees that sexual releases may be accompanied by being restrained as determined by Mistress.
- submissive male agrees that Mistress may release submissive male for the means of sexual play but that no orgasm is permitted unless Mistress specifically permits one.
- submissive male must always ask for permission to ejaculate.
- submissive male agrees to use any sexual aids such as (but not limited to) strap-ones, vibrators, dildos, and other artificial aids to satisfy Mistress.
- submissive male agrees that Mistress may use devices mentioned above in addition to other restraints on submissive male and submissive male will have no say in objecting to such devices. (Although begging up to a point will be allowed, once submissive male is told by Mistress to stop, the expectation is compliance. Failure will result in punishment both immediate and future.)
- submissive male agrees that Mistress may release submissive male out of good nature and that such a release from device is not grounds for sexual release.
- submissive male agrees to abide by all directions from Mistress during such releases.
- submissive male agrees to re-secure device upon command from Mistress.
As deemed of value in training by Mistress, or for her amusement and humiliation of submissive male,
- If submissive male is caught by Mistress wearing panties, he will receive an immediate 20 strokes.
- Mistress agrees that she will not require clothing that would be detrimental to normal public wear or that would otherwise affect public opinion, interfere with work duties, or that would unintentionally cause public humiliation for submissive male.
- submissive male acknowledges that Mistress may adorn herself in various clothing to tease and/or torment submissive male and that submissive male is not entitled to a sexual release because of such adornment.
- At any time, Mistress may blindfold submissive male and use permanent markers to decorate submissive male’s genitals in any way she sees fit.
- Both parties agree that every day life decisions such as child development, household finances, and other marital decisions outside the bedroom will have no effect on terms of this Contract, and that such decisions made can have no impact on the terms of this Contract.
- submissive male agrees and understands that Mistress may use various methods to tease and torment submissive male at any time. Furthermore, submissive male understands that he has no say in such teasing and that Mistress may continue at will and, in fact, submissive male desires that his limits be tested in this area.
- Mistress understands that she is free to receive any form of sexual gratification needed from submissive male during periods of confinement and submissive male promises to provide same, enthusiastically and to the best of his ability.
- submissive male agrees to disclose truthfully, when ordered by Mistress, any and all fantasies he may have in mind.
- submissive male is aware that rewards – up to and including sexual release – are given for good behavior including but not limited to performing duties as specified by Mistress, pampering, dinner dates, gifts, massages, and other methods. Penalties shall accrue if these events are not forthcoming.
- Both parties agree that modifications to this Contract may be needed during the period of this Contract and that such modifications can be made unilaterally by Mistress.
Penalties and Punishments
Mistress agrees that submissive male’s deviation from contract will result in mandatory punishments and discipline to obtain desired behavior.
- Breach of contract by Mistress will constitute a cancellation of contract without penalty to Mistress.
- Cancellation of contract will result in immediate release of submissive male from device.
- Breach of performance by submissive male will be handled at the discretion of the Mistress as outlined below.
- Unauthorized removal of device will result in a certain thirty-day period of lock up and denial for submissive male. Absolutely no sexual releases will be allowed for submissive male during this penalty period and submissive male may not discuss the subject of sex.
- Unauthorized removal of device that includes a sexual release will result in a certain forty-five day period of lock up and denial for submissive male. Again, absolutely no sexual releases will be allowed for submissive male during this penalty period. Additional punishment may be added as determined by Mistress
- submissive male agrees that additional restraining, flogging, private humiliation, servitude, and any other means of punishment may be administered by Mistress at any time to correct or punish infractions from contract or simply for Mistress’s entertainment or at her whim.
- submissive male agrees that failure to accept punishment for infractions is means for immediate termination of this Contract and that such refusal could lead to other detrimental behavior on part of Mistress. 50
To reinforce correct behavior, Mistress may, from time to time and at Her total discretion, reward submissive male for good behavior by allowing him a certain number of minutes to masterbate under her supervision. submissive male must instantly strip completely when ordered to and Mistress must keep all her clothes on. Mistress will give submissive male the key to unlock his chastity belt and start the clock. The submissive male is never allowed to ejaculate during reward sessions, but may get as close as he likes. As soon as the time is up, the chastity belt must be replaced. The submissive male is never told how many minutes he has.
If keys are not already in the Mistress’s possession, upon signing of contract submissive male is to immediately secure said device and hand over all keys to Mistress. Terms of this contract commence upon transfer of keys.
Miscellaneous terms and conditions to further clarify the relationship
The Mistress is expected to use any and all means at her disposal to motivate submissive male to willingly and eagerly serve her for her pleasure and submit to her will. Failing that approach, she may use whatever force is necessary to deepen his worshipful submission to her, which is the goal of this Contract and the sworn duty of the Mistress.
To insure a successful marriage and to assure the submissive male is properly trained to meet the requirements of the Mistress, the submissive male will agree to the following regarding the penis, which will now be called the “marital penis”:
- The Mistress will have complete ownership and control of the marital penis.
- The Mistress will decide if and when the marital penis will be allowed to ejaculate. She may deny giving permission for any period at her sole discretion.
- The Mistress may hint at or even promise relief, but in most all cases change her mind later and refuse.
- The Mistress will decide the method used to cause the marital penis to ejaculate. She may, for example, have the submissive male masturbate in her presence, or She may choose Her preferred method applied by Her or Her designee.
- The submissive male is not permitted to ask for any sexual favors, such as rubbing of the marital penis, insertion into any animate or inanimate objects (except as described below), licking or sucking unless directed or initiated by the Mistress.
- The submissive male is not permitted to touch the marital penis without permission, except to shave his penis and balls under the Mistress’s supervision. The submissive male must keep his genitals free of hair at all times.
- The submissive male will wear a chastity belt when ordered by Mistress. Wearing the chastity belt symbolizes the Mistress’s absolute domination and control of the marital penis.
- The submissive male is not permitted to touch any Female or expose himself to any Female unless directed to do so by the Mistress.
- submissive male agrees to purchase and use according to Mistress’s instructions any disciplinary equipment that Mistress feels may be necessary to further his training and obedience. submissive male must subtly bring the existence of such training materials and equipment to the attention of Mistress.
- As training progresses, the Mistress shall raise her standards of performance, adjust MPPs, and make any adjustments she feels necessary to achieve A+ behavior in submissive male.
- The submissive male is not allowed to put a lock on his balls.
To insure a successful marriage, the Mistress has the following rights:
The Mistress has complete ownership and control of the marital penis and She and only She will decide when it will be touched, rubbed, sucked or placed into or on any object whether animate or inanimate and when or even if it may ejaculate.
The Mistress requires the submissive male to wear a chastity device on the marital penis that may eliminate engorgement of the marital penis, touching of the marital penis, and has absolute control of ejaculation.
The Mistress has the right to deny ejaculation for the entire term of this Contract or to deny ejaculation until submissive male’s training is completed.
Should the Mistress instruct that the marital penis be allowed to ejaculate, in order to reaffirm and strengthen the submission of the submissive male to the Mistress, the Mistress has the right to dictate the method of recycling of the ejaculate. The submissive male must always ask for permission before any ejaculation and agrees to follow Mistress’s instructions. Wive will intentionally deny permission in most cases.
The Mistress has the right to dictate any method of recycling of the ejaculate in any way She sees fit to further the submissive male’s submissive training and obedience through the use of humiliation.
The Mistress has the right to demand sexual pleasure from the submissive male at any time without any reciprocal duties, which may include but not be limited to cunnilingus, fornication and body worship.
Since the Mistress no longer needs the marital penis for satisfaction, She may seek other means of satisfaction.
Upon demand, the Mistress has the right to have Her pussy licked clean by the submissive male.
Mistress may instruct submissive male to be the dominant one and act accordingly, at her whim. submissive male must comply. Mistress must provide specific instruction or training in her desired rendition of this role.
At any time indicated by the Mistress, but without the suggestion of the submissive male, the submissive male shall immediately strip and kneel before the Mistress, or take any position demanded by the Mistress, either restrained or not.
The Mistress has the right to administer punishment spankings at anytime, for any reason, including no reason at all.
To maintain discipline, the Mistress will spank the submissive male at least once a week during the scheduled discipline session.
To insure a successful marriage, the submissive male’s dress code is as follows:
For her entertainment and to further the humiliation necessary to strengthen the training, the Mistress sets the rules that dictate what her submissive male shall wear. For example:
- The submissive male may be required to remove all clothes after a set time of day or after a particular trigger time, such as after dinner.
- The submissive male may be required to wear clothes that allow him to be exposed after a set time of day or after a particular trigger time, such as after dinner.
- Sexual devices such as butt plugs, chastity devices, rope binding, handcuffs, etc. are considered clothing.
- Mistress may, for her entertainment, require submissive male to wear a slave collar and leash, an apron, or thong
- Instructing the submissive male to wear clothes only suitable for women or sissified men. This may include under clothes such as panties or bra or over clothes such as a dress or skirt.
- When alone at home and the temperature is adequate, submissive male may be instructed to wear only his apron.
The submissive male is required to advise the Mistress when his workday is easy and he is available to service the Mistress.
To insure a successful marriage, and to train the submissive male to meet the Mistress’s high standards, the Mistress will punish the submissive male for any of the following infractions. This is a minimal guide only and does not limit the Mistress to decide to punish for other infractions or for her entertainment:
- Not following instructions or not completing job assignments to Mistress’s satisfaction.
- Making any reference to sex, submission, or being a slave on Tuesday, Wednesday, or Thursday, except that he will present himself on demand to his Mistress for punishment and job assignments at her command.
- Not satisfying his Mistress when directed to do so.
- Not following the dress code.
- Complaining or forbidding the Mistress to have sex outside the marriage as is Her right. 50
- Touching his penis.
- Ejaculating without permission. 50
- Asking for sexual favors from any Female, including the Mistress.
- Failure to anticipate the Mistress’s needs for comfort and affection.
- Failure to read his Mistress’s mind in regard to any matter.
To insure a successful chastity marriage, the Mistress may punish the submissive male as follows. This is a guide only and does not limit the Mistress’s choice of punishment which is only limited by the Mistress’s imagination:
- Binding him to the bed or other object for extended periods of time. During this time she may spank or whip the submissive male’s body. The penis or balls may be bound and/or stretched with any device the Mistress chooses. This will possibly increase the size of the substandard puny marital penis.
- Restraining him with ropes, belts, chains or handcuffs
- Prolonging the submissive male’s chastity period
- Applying pressure to the submissive male’s balls to create discomfort. Since the submissive male does not own the marital penis and balls, the level of pressure exerted on the balls is entirely up to the Mistress’s discretion.
To insure a successful chastity marriage, the submissive male acknowledges that the following are privileges, not punishments:
- Satisfying his Mistress, whenever and however She demands.
- Allowing the Mistress to withhold her permission for his ejaculation to improve the marriage by making him more attentive and responsive.
- Cleaning his Mistress’s pussy with his mouth on Her demand and after intercourse.
- Dress code including chastity devices.
- Punishment administered by his Mistress or Her designee.
To insure a successful chastity marriage:
The Mistress has the right to change or add to this contract at will and the submissive male must comply with the new conditions as if they were in the initial Contract set forth here.
The submissive male does not have the right to change any conditions under this contract without the prior written permission of the Mistress.
To enforce compliance with this Contract through possible humiliation, the Mistress has the right to expose the existence and content of this Contract and the slave status of submissive male to anyone. Mistress may order submissive male to drop his pants and show the chastity belt. 50
The submissive male must be completely naked when signing this Contract and the Mistress must be fully clothed so that the new power relationship is clear and established.
Upon signing this Contract, submissive male will provide Mistress with a set of permanent markers, blindfold himself and present his genitals to Mistress so that She may decorate her property appropriately.
More about Female Led Relationship Contracts
Female-Led Disciplinary Punishment Notification
Feel that you aren’t getting the frequency and intensity of the punishment you deserve?
Have you been disrespectful, rude, disobedience, lazy, irresponsible, smug?
Should you be spanked, paddled, whipped, feminized?
Want to aid your Mistress – girlfriend, partner, lover, wife – in giving you the discipline that you deserve?
Click on the thumbnail below and print he full-sized disciplinary notification below.
Now present it to your superior so that you know that you understand that you should be punished and welcome her authority over you.
And do let me know how this works out.
One of the methods for enhancing corporal punishment is to destroy an orgasm immediately after the male’s spanking.
Using one hand gently caress the sub male’s phallus. Arouse him to the point of erection and anticipation of pleasure without using sufficient pressure or speed to induce a climax.
With the other hand the woman massage the subject’s prostate gland – e.g., “milking” the sub male. This will cause the male to ejaculate involuntarily. His expectations aroused, then dashed will add disappointment and shame to the post-spanking physical pain.
Drawing by Jay Em.
F/m Practice Makes Perfect
As soon as she becomes of legal age a young woman should begin spanking practice.
Your sexual allure will ensnare the interest of males. When you first begin practice corporal punishment and discipline of the male seek out the shy males. Young men who are flustered and thrilled that you pay attention to them.
They will the guys who will prove the most easily dominated. They probably secretly admire and crave “bossy girls.” They will most easily accept being verbally rebuked and physically punished.
They are rarely worth retaining. Once you master one of these males drop him and find a new one to control. This hands on experience will prove when you seek a more capable man as submissive sex slave or even as a mate.
With steady practicing ruling and disciplining men will become second nature. You may want a create a harem of slave males who will labor for you and turn their paychecks over you. You will enjoy a life of opulence, ease and superiority.
And punishing men is the dominant woman’s sure pleasure.
Punishment: chastisement for disobedience, laziness, misbehavior is a component of most female led relationships. Pain, discomfort to make the may repent is failings and mend his ways. Corporal punishment is the most common form of discipline. Including maintenance spankings to forestall any inappropriate actions on the part of the submissive male. And of course for many couples consensual sadomasochism is play, part of the fun.
Do you think that punishment has a place in a F/m love affair? Serious punishment or play?
The marriage ceremony was still alive in Gregor’s mind as he returned home with his new wife. The young husband had no no suspicion that his life as to be turned upside down.
Telling her husband to wait patiently while she brought him a surprise she left the room. When she returned she had become such a perfect vision of womanly sexuality he felt every dream he had of his honeymoon would be fulfilled.
Instead his bride yanked him by the neck, through him across a table, pulled down his pants and proceeded to whip him violently.
Once her lashes melted any resistance or doubt her husband had she would introduce him to his life as a slave in a wife-ruled marriage.
His new Mistress’ name was Wanda. See all the female-led artwork telling the story of Gregor & Wanda.