Do you feel that you want – that you need – for a top to apply discipline to your life that you aren’t capable of yourself?
That you must have a top – master, mistress – to force you to behave in a mature manner? Almost a daddy or mommy: like a parent or teacher?
Would you want the top to decide your:
- Physical Health
Do you think you could obey so much control?
What is most important: that the top is very strict or exerts authority as a form of love?
Would you accept regular discipline: physical and emotional punishment?
Do you want the power exchange confined only to scenes?
A lifestyle relationship that encourages your independence and individuality?